I heard this story today and i just thought i share it.
Tonight, I thought my husband was acting weird. We had made plans to meet at a nice restaurant for dinner. I was shopping with
my friends all day long, so i thought he was upset at the fact that i was a bit late, but he made no comment on it.
Conversation wasn’t flowing, so i suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could talk.
He agreed, but he didnt say much. I asked him what was wrong; He said, “Nothing”. I asked if it was my fault that
he was upset. He said he wasn’t upset, that it had nothing to do with me, and not to worry about it. On the way home,
I told him that i loved him. He smiled slightly, and kept driving. I can’t explain his behaviour i don’t know why he didn’t
say, “I love you, too”, When we got home, I felt as if i had lost him completely, as if he wanted nothing to do with me
any more. He just sat there quietly, and watched TV. He continued to seem distant and absent. Finally, with silence all around us,
I decided to go to bed. About 15 minutes later, he came to bed. But i still felt that he was distracted, and his thoughts were
somewhere else. he fel asleep – I cried. I dont know what to do. I’m almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else. My life
is a disaster.
Motorcycle wont start…,cant figure out why
What do you think of this story? learn anything from it?
I’m not a big fan of generalisation but I think this story highlights one the fundamental difference between men and women.
men tend talk about a problem with someone who can assist with the solution and
women tend to talk to someone who can understand their problem, not necessarily help with it, just need someone to listen, care and understand.
if you are a guy, it is worth noting that women are attracted to men that are provides solutions rather than problem. And in the context of this
story, she felt repulsive he couldn’t provide for her emotional dilemma.
I’m like this sometimes, thoughts of melancholy, self-doubt, and somewhere between irritation and anger at myself are running rampant through my brain.
In conclusion, i believe communication is the key. I think both parties should always say whatever is on their mind no matter how irrelevant it might seem